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Satisfaction?


Is there such a thing in relationships?
I think most people keep singing the same song:
"I can't get no satisfaction"
...
(yeah I know there is a double negative in the grammar, but you get the point still!)


I think loading new pictures is an effective tool in attracting new people.
But what about the previous acquaintances?
The old saying: the more things change the more they stay the same, still holds true:
in truth the relationship begin with us, not in the next partner to be had.
We must nurture that partner and manifest in him or her the loving qualities we desire,
or we will never have a partner to desire, ever!


New is not only seldom better, but it is a step back, a set back. like having to rebuild a house,
after a storm tears the last one down.
More partners to satisfy until we die is our motto!
Satisfaction is a hard thing for most people. But it shouldn't have to be.


For those of us who look forward to relationships in the now- we choose you because we are SATISFIED with you. Period! Initially and forever!
And if only that were a mutual goal, there would be no need for new pictures, new guys/girls and more broken hearts than one could shake a stick at.

 So up come the pictures, up come the new guys/girls.
Then they eventually, those guys/girls, just like the last guys/girls - say something wrong.


Mick Jagger is going to be alive on here far after he is dead.
Don't let his fate happen to you also.

 If you have a soul mate right in front of your face, be smart enough to grab him or her while you still can. and if you make a mistake and injure each other's feelings, say you're sorry promptly and sincerely and move on together, as one person; but by all means move on before its too late- before someone else takes that wonderful partner from you entirely- and you are left with your endless struggle forever, face to face for eternity. Black Karma on your soul.


Hell to me would be to have hundreds of partners, and no satisfaction. And Mick Jagger singing his song to us for all eternity. I don't think God is that cruel.



- Dewaine


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