The unexpected but unavoidable stages of life The first stage: We are a born, life is easy, there is plenty of time to figure out life, friendships, hobbies etc. We have friends. We get along with everyone. We are all equal. However, Life quickly changes. We NOW have responsibilities. Our friends have boyfriends and girlfriends of their own as well. Many move away, leaving us never to see them again, often they are too far way to visit or we are too busy with other things and obligations. We always thought those friends would be around forever – but not very much so so much now as life moved along. There is nothing we can do to change it oh well... Stage two: Then we change neighborhoods and friendships ourselves - we take on jobs. We try to accumulate money. We try to raise families to meet their needs and we are busy now working for them; there is little time for ourselves. It seems however like just yesterday and we w