Manipulation

The desire to strike back at someone
is tempting to some people who have been hurt
Either rightly so, or wrongly so...

Without mutual love, however, there can be no relationship to build on.
Jesus Christ had it right.
Forgive us of our trespasses as we forgive those that trespass against us,
that IS the kingdom WITHIN..... US!!!!!!!
( the kingdom means the 'reigning rules' of God)

It is inevitable that seperation happens, in manipuation, because it is not the rules that govern the 'creative spiritual force' of love toward each other.

We destroy ourselves first in our attempts to define love.
The desire to strike back is the most negative of all spiritual forces.
What a price to pay for this HORRIBLE choice!!!
We gain nothing but being alone in the end.

There is nothing darker to one's well being as a soul, than the desire to control someone else.
TRUE LOVE SEEKS NOT ITSELF, AND IS NOT PUFFED UP!!!
That is the test of a true friend
and dynamic lover!!!

Dewaine

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