Dewaine Wakeman

Friends vs. Aloneness  by Dewaine Wakeman Friends: Are they actually real and can we trust them? Maybe you’ve faced these questions too after being hurt. If you need to love people, try loving them from a distance. Don’t feel guilty, take your time in learning people. Christ would say, “Guard yourself against the WORLD” Notice, he did not say guard yourself against a ‘few people you don’t trust, he said guard yourself against the entire world. The friends you come into this world with, are not necessarily the friends you will leave with. We live in a less than perfect world that is often filled with jealousy, greed, hate and backstabbing. You are always your best friend, regardless of the circumstances on which you happen to find yourself in. Friends are only worthy of your time IF they are worthy of your friendship, your respect, and your trust. Be comfortable on occasion to be alone as well, if the relationship does not work out. Don't feel guilty. I...

(O.K.Cupid, Match, Plenty Of Fish, eHarmony) Satisfaction? Is there such a thing in relationships? I think most people keep singing the same song: "I can't get no satisfaction" ... (yeah I know there is a double negative in the grammar, but you get the point still!) I think loading new pictures is an effective tool in attracting new people. But what about the previous acquaintances? The old saying: the more things change the more they stay the same, still holds true: in truth the relationship begin with us, not in the next partner to be had. We must nurture that partner and manifest in him or her the loving qualities we desire, or we will never have a partner to desire, ever! New is not only seldom better, but it is a step back, a set back. like having to rebuild a house, after a storm tears the last one down. More partners to satisfy until we die is our motto! Satisfaction is a hard thing for most people. But it should...

Peace What is it? Why do we take it for granted? Or, do we take it for granted? Whatever the case may be, war is steady Peace is fragile. Does the human race have some lesson to learn here? We never seem to ‘get it right’. Could this possibly be BECAUSE OF US? The cycle goes on, like a trip around the moon We discover our own dune buggy but it is on a different side, the same side from whence we started. How is it that we see things differently in time and space? Things really aren't different, but we ‘think’ we have progress, we think we see things differently, ‘now’ or ‘this time around’. I’m reminded of what Wayne Dyer said of  human nature i.e. the human race, “When you live on a round planet, there is no choosing sides. Christ said something similar in the Gnostic Gospels, “Where the end is, there will the beginning be.” Consciousness may ‘be’ the secret to bringing the human race closer together, if there is such a thing. Beg...